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What to Wear to Your Engagement Shoot: A Photographers Guide

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Couple sitting together on a wooden swing set, surrounded by lush greenery. The woman wears a white flowy dress and holds a bouquet, while the man wears an off-white button-up shirt with cream pants. Both are in comfortable brown shoes, creating a relaxed and romantic engagement shoot look.
Engaged couple sitting in a small boat on calm water in Cypress Gardens, sharing a kiss beneath a canopy of trees. The woman wears a white flowy dress and holds a bouquet, while the man wears an off-white button-up shirt with cream pants. The lush greenery and soft lighting create a romantic, timeless feel."
A romantic moment on the water as an engaged couple shares a kiss in a boat. The man sits while the woman stands, leaning down to meet him. She wears a flowing white dress and holds a bouquet, while he is dressed in a neutral-toned outfit. The overhead trees and soft light enhance the dreamy, intimate feel

Table of Contents:

  1. Introduction
  2. Step 1: Start with What Feels Right
  3. Step 2: Coordinate, Don’t Match
  4. Step 3: Think About the Location & Season
  5. Step 4: Add Movement for Magic
  6. Step 5: Layer and Add Texture
  7. Step 6: Focus on the Details
  8. Step 7: Embrace Colors That Reflect Your Personality
  9. Step 8: Plan for Outfit Changes
  10. Step 9: Keep It Simple with Patterns
  11. Step 10: Be Yourself
  12. Where to Shop for Engagement Shoot Outfits
  13. FAQs: What to Wear for an Engagement Shoot
  14. Final Thoughts
  15. Meet Your Engagement Photo Photographers

If you are wondering what to wear to your engagement shoot – WE GOT YOU. I’m gonna say it – outfits are one of THE most important parts of any photoshoot. Think of movies – the outfit design is super important to convey the time period, the vibes of the film, and really bring you into the world that the director is designing. That’s exactly the energy we need to bring to photoshoots too. With this guide, I’m hoping that I can help you figure out what you are wanting to wear and the vibes you want to bring to your engagement session!

Step 1: Start with What Feels Right

ack and white photo of a couple standing in front of a waterfall. The woman wears a flowy dress with lightly puffy sleeves, and the man is dressed in a white button-up shirt with dark pants. The dramatic contrast of the water and their outfits creates a timeless, romantic feel.

The number one rule: Wear something that feels like you. The more comfortable and confident you feel, the more natural your photos will look.

  • Go with your vibe: If cozy is your thing, go for a chunky sweater with jeans and ankle boots for a warm, laid-back look. Prefer something romantic? A flowy maxi dress can create dreamy, elegant movement in photos.
  • Try something new: Always wanted to wear a bold statement piece, like a vibrant red dress or a a magical flowy dress? If it feels true to you, your engagement shoot is the perfect opportunity to try it.
  • Pick practical shoes: If your session involves walking on cobblestone streets, opt for sturdy-yet-stylish boots, or bring comfy shoes and change into the shoes you want when the session starts.

Step 2: Coordinate, Don’t Match

A couple shares a candid moment as the man, dressed in a black suit, sits and takes a photo of the woman with a film camera. She stands in a flowy, silky white dress with off-the-shoulder sleeves, creating an elegant and timeless look. The scene captures a mix of romance and nostalgia.

You and your partner don’t need to wear identical outfits to look cohesive. Instead, aim for complementary colors and textures that reflect your personalities.

  • Complement each other: If one of you wears a neutral cream sweater, the other could wear a muted olive jacket for a subtle pairing.
  • Mix textures: Try a soft wool sweater paired with a silky dress to add visual interest.
  • Stick to a color palette: Think navy blue paired with light blues and greys for a coordinated but not matchy-matchy look.

Step 3: Think About the Location & Season

A couple in bathing suits poses playfully as the woman piggybacks on the man, both smiling at the camera. He wears a necklace and an earring, while she has a bracelet, subtly highlighting their accessories even in a relaxed swimwear look.
A couple sits at the base of a waterfall, surrounded by rocks, with the full cascade visible in the background. The woman wears a soft pink bathing suit that complements the natural tones of the setting, while the man sits beside her, both embracing the serene and romantic atmosphere.
Black and white close-up of a couple’s faces, highlighting their expressions and accessories. Their earrings, necklaces, and bracelets stand out, adding subtle details to the intimate portrait.

Your outfits should reflect your surroundings and the season of your shoot.

  • Match the vibe: Shooting in a forest? Opt for flannels, cozy sweaters, and earth tones. Planning a city shoot? A sleek jacket with bold colors can offer a modern feel.
  • Dress for the season: Choose floral prints and pastel colors for spring, rich rusts and olive greens for fall, or cool navy and grey tones for winter shoots. These aren’t hard and fast rules though!
  • Stay practical: For a winter shoot, layer with stylish outerwear like a wool coat and a scarf that complements your overall color scheme.

Step 4: Add Movement for Magic

Silhouette of a couple as the man lifts and swings the woman around, her flowy dress billowing in motion. The dynamic movement and soft fabric create a striking, romantic scene against the backdrop of light and shadow.

Photos come alive when there’s movement—whether it’s a twirl, a walk, or a playful moment between the two of you.

  • Go for flow: Dresses, skirts, or wide-leg pants made of lightweight fabrics capture beautiful movement. Especially in the mountains or on the beach with the wind flowing, it really looks extra magical.
  • Add dynamic layers: A scarf, light jacket, or even a duster coat can enhance motion in photos.
  • Stay flexible: Comfortable jeans and a breathable top allow for natural, fun poses.

Step 5: Layer and Add Texture

A couple stands together in stylish layered outfits, perfect for a cozy, seasonal look. The man wears a dark red sweater, cream pants, and brown shoes, while the woman pairs dark blue jeans with white sneakers, a tan shirt, a brown long coat, and a thick, long scarf. Their accessories, including earrings and a bracelet, add thoughtful details to the well-balanced outfit combination.
Close-up shot of a couple embracing, highlighting the woman’s accessories. Her earrings, bracelet, and layered scarf add stylish details to her outfit, complementing the cozy and well-coordinated look of the couple.
A couple dances in front of a waterfall as the man twirls the woman, causing her long scarf to flow behind her. Their layered outfits add texture and movement, complementing the natural beauty of the cascading water in the background.

Textures and layers add visual depth and make your photos more engaging.

  • Play with materials: Mix lace with denim or wool with silk to create texture contrast.
  • Quick outfit refresh: A leather jacket or chunky knit cardigan can instantly change up your look without a full wardrobe swap.
  • Add cozy textures: Chunky scarves or textured sweaters create a warm, inviting feel in colder months.

Step 6: Focus on the Details

A couple sits on a picnic blanket surrounded by lush greenery and mountains. The woman, wearing a white short flowy dress with ruffled sleeves, holds a film camera and takes a photo of the man, who is dressed in a dark green button-up shirt, beige pants, and brown shoes. The scene captures a nostalgic and romantic outdoor moment.
Close-up of a couple as the man gently holds the woman’s face, creating an intimate and tender moment. The texture of his dark green button-up shirt is visible, along with the delicate earrings she is wearing, adding subtle details to the romantic shot.
A couple dances outdoors as the man twirls the woman, her flowy white dress and hair moving gracefully with the motion. The natural setting, combined with their effortless movement, creates a romantic and carefree moment.

Small details can take your outfit from good to great—especially in close-up shots.

  • Accessorize thoughtfully: Simple jewelry, a stylish hat, a flowy knitted scarf, or a minimalistic watch can add a unique personal touch.
  • Highlight your hands: Since engagement rings often take the spotlight, ensure your nails are clean and your hands are moisturized 🙂
  • Stay polished: Make sure clothes are wrinkle-free, shoes are clean, and stray threads are trimmed.

Step 7: Embrace Colors That Reflect Your Personality

Close-up of a couple embracing as the man kisses the woman’s cheek. Her hair flows in the wind, adding movement to the moment. She wears a white flowy shirt with ruffles and floral details, blue jeans with a brown belt, and brown boots, while he is dressed in a muted dark green long-sleeve polo and khaki pants.
A couple lays together in a lush green field surrounded by mountains. The woman sits up slightly, gazing at the man with a soft expression. She wears a white flowy shirt with ruffles and floral details, blue jeans, and brown boots, while he is dressed in a muted dark green long-sleeve polo and khaki pants. The setting creates a peaceful and romantic atmosphere.

Neutral tones are timeless and allow the focus to remain on your connection.

  • Play with color: Greens, blues, and reds can be just as stunning as neutrals, adding vibrancy and personality to your shoot.
  • Go bold or soft: Jewel tones like emerald, sapphire, or ruby bring richness, while lighter shades like blush pink or sky blue offer a softer look.
  • Match your surroundings: Earthy tones like olive green, taupe, or rich red or browns blend seamlessly with outdoor settings, while brighter colors can add a lively contrast against natural backdrops.
  • Avoid loud patterns or small lines: Busy prints, tiny stripes, or overly bright patterns can be distracting and may not photograph well. Opt for subtle prints or solid colors for a cleaner, more timeless look.

Step 8: Plan for Outfit Changes

A couple holds hands while running across an open field, their movement full of energy and joy. The woman wears a plum-colored tank top with wide-legged blue jeans, while the man wears a dark green shirt, blue jeans, and brown boots. The natural landscape enhances the carefree and adventurous feel of the moment.
A couple enjoys a sunny day outdoors as the man takes a photo of the woman with a film camera. She wears a sleeveless, flowy light blue dress, while he is dressed in a white t-shirt and dark blue jeans. The bright blue sky and deep green grass create a fresh, vibrant backdrop that complements their outfits and the nostalgic feel of the moment.
A couple runs across a field during blue hour, their silhouettes standing out against the soft evening light. The woman wears a pale yellow flowy dress with off-the-shoulder sleeves, while the man is dressed in black jeans and a black jacket. The contrast between their outfits and the moody sky adds depth and romance to the scene.

Switching outfits during your session adds variety and showcases different aspects of your relationship.

  • Bring two looks: One formal, one casual, to capture a range of styles. We always bring a pop up station in our sessions so our couples can change without worrying!
  • Plan logistics: If your shoot is outdoors, bring a blanket or jacket to cover up if it gets windy – being a mountain photographer the weather can change FAST so its always good to have something to cover up if it gets cold!
  • Start casual and end with formal: I love keeping the formal option for last so we can save it for the sunset vibes!

Step 9: Keep It Simple with Patterns

A couple dances in an open field as the woman's flowy light blue dress and hair move with the motion. She wears a sleeveless, airy dress, while the man, dressed in a white t-shirt and dark blue jeans, guides her in the dance. The golden sunlight and surrounding greenery enhance the dreamy, romantic feel of the moment.

When it comes to patterns, less is more.

  • Opt for subtle prints: Small florals or muted plaid add visual interest without being overwhelming, or opt for layering with different textures to add some visual interest.
  • Balance patterns: If one partner wears a print, the other should wear a solid color for balance.
  • Avoid loud logos and neon colors: They can distract from the focus of your photos—you.

Step 10: Be Yourself

ose-up of a couple laughing together, capturing a joyful and candid moment. The woman wears a flowy purple dress with floral and sparkly details, while the man is dressed in a white button-up shirt and dark blue jeans. Their expressions and body language highlight their genuine connection.

Your engagement photos should reflect your authentic connection.

  • Show your personal style: Whether it’s vintage charm, boho vibes, or minimalist elegance, embrace what makes you you.
  • Incorporate shared interests: This is our biggest tip. If you share a passion—whether it’s hiking or a love for coffee—subtle nods can add personal touches. Think of things like books, painting supplies, card games, etc!
  • Keep it genuine: Authenticity always shines through in photos. Just be yourself and interact with each other the way you would in real life!

Where to Shop for Engagement Shoot Outfits

A couple walks along the beach, with the woman wrapped in an off-white blanket and the man leading slightly ahead in a white button-up shirt and black pants. The soft tones of their outfits complement the serene coastal setting, creating a peaceful and intimate moment.
A couple shares a romantic moment on the beach as the man holds the woman in his arms. She wears a flowy white dress with off-the-shoulder sleeves, while he is dressed in a black suit with a white button-up shirt underneath. The soft ocean breeze adds movement to her dress, enhancing the dreamy, intimate feel of the scene.
A couple walks hand in hand along the beach as birds fly in the distance. The woman’s silky dress catches the warm glow of the sunset, creating a soft, golden reflection. The man, dressed in a black suit, walks beside her, completing the romantic and serene scene

Need some inspiration? Here are my favorite places to shop for stylish engagement session outfits:

  • Office Seven: Two sister designers based in Kyiv, Ukraine that make the most ethereal and storytelling dresses (the photos above show a dress from them!)
  • Hello Molly: Classic, stylish pieces and quality accessories.
  • Anthropologie: Romantic, bohemian styles with flowy textures.
  • Reformation: Sustainable dresses with elegant silhouettes.
  • Meshki: Understated, refined and elegant dresses and suits!
  • Etsy: We love when clients get dresses from small sellers on etsy, it usually means they get the most unique, detailed dresses and outfits.
  • Lacemade: Ethereal and magical dresses straight out of a storybook.

FAQs: What to Wear for an Engagement Shoot

Can we wear black for engagement photos? Yes! Black can look incredibly sleek and timeless, especially in urban settings. Just balance it with lighter accessories or contrasting colors.

What colors photograph best for engagement photos? Earth tones, pastels, and neutrals typically photograph beautifully and complement most backgrounds – but we also love a pop of color like dark red, dark green or navy colors. Experiment with some layering too especially with textures!

Should we bring props to our engagement shoot? If it feels true to your story—absolutely! We LOVE when people bring props that are specific to them – Think of cozy blankets, picnic baskets, books, journals, art supplies, games, fun drinks or snacks, anything that is very you. It really adds a uniqueness and storytelling quality to your photos!

Can we wear casual outfits? Definitely! Casual outfits can feel genuine and relaxed, especially when paired with a formal look for variety. (We always bring a pop up changing station to all of our shoots so you can change!)

Final Thoughts

Your engagement shoot should feel natural, joyful, and—most importantly—you. Wear what makes you feel confident, comfortable, and connected.

Relax, trust your photographer, and embrace the experience. The magic happens when you’re just being yourselves.

Ready to book your engagement session? Contact me today for personalized styling tips and location ideas tailored to your love story!

meet your Asheville engagement photographers:

We’re Yara & Christian – we are elopement & micro-wedding photographers based in the North Carolina mountains and who adore engagement photos ! If you are wanting engagement photos captured in a cinematic and storytelling way (or your wedding day too!), we’re you’re people 🙂 Reach out to us here: CONTACT US

Two elopement photographers embrace on a mountaintop in Asheville, North Carolina, dressed in cozy sweaters and a beanie. The breathtaking mountain landscape stretches behind them, adding to the warm and intimate moment.
An elopement photographer documents a couple’s intimate moment beside a cascading waterfall in Asheville, North Carolina, during their adventurous wedding session.

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